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Merry Christmas everybody! We are now squarely in the middle of the holiday season; every family celebrating with their own special traditions. Often this includes watching their favorite Christmas movies year after year, saying the lines along with (or a split second before) the characters. One of our favorites is Miracle on 34th Street (the original film with Maureen O’Hara, obviously). It’s the story of a little girl who has been raised to be practical, and only believe what she can see. Her childhood included neither imagination nor big dreams. As the story progresses, we see the reason why: her mother was disillusioned by someone who didn’t live up to his promises, and she wants to protect her daughter from this same hurt. But then they meet someone who encourages the mother to renew her faith in human nature and the daughter to use her imagination and believe something that is unlikely, if not impossible. The little girl decides to take a chance and puts herself out there. She shares her dream—the one she thought was too big and ridiculous to ever tell anyone. She now believes it can come true, and she will receive it as her Christmas gift. But alas, she looks under the tree Christmas morning and it isn’t there. Everyone presses her to have faith and keep believing, but she knows better now. There’s a scene in that movie I sometimes think about, and not just at Christmastime, where the disheartened little girl is in the back seat of a car, murmuring to herself, “I believe, I believe, it’s silly, but I believe.”
I can’t tell you how many times I have said those same words at church, in my car, and at home. “I believe, I believe, it’s silly, but I believe.” Although sometimes I say it like a man in the Bible said to Jesus: “Lord, I believe, help my unbelief.”
I have some dreams of my own, and I have some prayers I need God to answer. I am believing God for some pretty big things, but they have not yet appeared under my tree. If you look at some of my dreams and prayers, statistically and realistically they are unlikely to be answered anytime soon. But I am praying to a God who is able to do exceedingly and abundantly above all that I ask or think. So, yes, I pray big prayers, not little ones. And I do believe they will be answered, although I have surrendered to the fact that the timeline is not up to me. (I believe, I believe, it’s silly, but I believe.)
Are you asking God for anything big? Are you starting to wonder if it will ever happen? Maybe it’s a financial struggle, a fracture in your family, a loss in your life, or something too personal to acknowledge to anyone but God. Maybe it’s something that you gave up on and don’t even bother praying for anymore. But send those prayers up where they belong, in the palm of God’s hand. Your life, your dreams, your family and your future are all in good hands. Because they are His hands, and He will treat you and your dreams gently.
And yes, the story had a happy ending. It’s a Christmas movie; how could it be otherwise? There was a miracle on 34th Street. And I am believing for a miracle on my street. Are you ready for a miracle on yours?
Our God is able to do exceedingly abundantly ABOVE all we ask or think. Our hard is His easy. Our impossible is His possible. So have faith in God. Meanwhile, let’s spread His peace, hope and joy to our world.
“Faith is believing when common sense tells you not to.”
Over the last few decades, there have been people that have tried taming wild animals with varying rates of success. From pigs to bears, there has been a full spectrum of attempts to tame the wild. Over a half century ago, a biologist named Dmitry Belyaev gathered a team of researchers and took 130 foxes from fur farms. They began breeding the foxes with the goal of re-creating the process in which different breeds of wolves adapted to their environment, thus changing their physical appearance to dogs. Ultimately, they wanted to see if they could tame the foxes.
With each generation of foxes, Belyaev and his colleagues tested the foxes’ reactions to human contact, selecting those most approachable to breed for the next generation. By the mid-1960s, the experiment was working beyond what they could have ever imagined. They were producing foxes that were not only unafraid of humans but also actively seeking to bond with them. Selecting which foxes to breed, based solely on how well they got along with humans, seemed also to alter their physical appearance, not just their dispositions. After only nine generations, the researchers recorded foxes born with the floppier ears and spotted coats often found on domesticated pets. At this point, the foxes were already whining and wagging their tails in response to a human presence; behaviors never before seen in wild foxes.
In 2 Peter 1, we see that God’s divine power gives us everything we need for a godly life. This Scripture also says He has given us great and precious promises – so that through these promises we may participate in the divine nature of God, escaping the corruption caused by evil desires in this world. Could it be that with each generation, the enemy wants us to adapt a little more to the current culture; pushing away the truths of God’s Word? Christ has called us to avoid being conformed to the patterns of this world, instead, being transformed by the renewing of our minds (Romans 12:2).
God has a plan for you: to stand up, change this culture, and be a difference maker. The enemy has a plan for you as well: to sit down, be quiet, and blend in. We learn through Scripture that Satan is crafty, and he desires to destroy you. Beware of subtle changes in your convictions. The more accustomed to culture we become, the more desensitized we can become to media, relationships, and desires that don’t glorify God. A final thought about the foxes mentioned earlier: the more they became domesticated, the less natural instincts they had to hunt, find food, and protect themselves. The more we become desensitized to sin, the less spiritual instincts we have to witness, make disciples, and guard ourselves from spiritual attacks.
You were designed to thrive in the wild. You were designed to rehabilitate culture. Don’t allow your identity to change simply for the fact that it’s easier to blend in. Stay vigilant. Stay humble. Stay full of God’s Word and be a difference maker.
I have always been intrigued by the mystique of hard work. The athlete who stays on the field later than the rest in order to strive for a championship. The businessman who wakes up earlier than his competition in order to get an edge on the market. The musician who locks himself in a room until he achieves his perceived level of mastery. The soldier who trains in pain, denying himself comforts, so he can outlast the enemy.
In our American culture, many of us have been trained to work hard in order to pursue a dream. In fact, many other nations look at America as an oddity because of our work ethic. As a country, we average more annual work hours than Japan, Britain, and Germany. They actually think it’s funny that we do things like work from home, work through lunch, and skip our paid vacations.
But the truth of the matter is hard work really does pay off. The “grind” often does separate the great from the average. This is a fascinating concept. Hard work is waiting in front of all of us and it’s simply our choice whether or not we want to step into it.
But what’s equally fascinating is that the same things that are true about hard work can also be said for rest. The Lord God set the standard for work in Genesis 1 when He created the heavens and the earth. For six days straight the Lord worked, and His work produced something amazing. But on the seventh day, Genesis 2:2 tells us the Lord did something interesting—He rested from work.
What?! How could He do that?! If He would have worked one more day, imagine what else could have been added to this world that we live in! Yeah, maybe more could have been added to the creation, but God didn’t think it was necessary. Instead, He thought it was necessary to set apart a time to stop. To cease from work. To rest.
As Americans, we manipulate time to be more productive, but God takes time for rest. He did this to set a standard for us. Work is necessary. Work is good. Great things can come as a result of work. But rest is also necessary. In fact, you can’t be the complete and finished product God designed you to be without it!
You may be wondering, “Why should I rest if dreams come true through my hard work?” Because there is one dream, one supreme destination, the greatest dream God has placed in man’s heart, that you and I cannot achieve through hard work—it’s the dream of perpetual paradise. Sure, you can get up early, stay up late, be the first to arrive and the last to leave, and after years of that, maybe have the opportunity to enjoy a time of rest. But those efforts will not transfer to erasing your sin and giving you entrance into a perpetual paradise.
“So how is this dream reached?” The answer to that is through rest. Believe it or not, God designed you to rest in Him, and to be in a continual paradise! Read the second and third chapters of Genesis. There is no mention of time or days or months. In fact, there is no mention of a conclusion to the seventh day, which was the time to rest. Man was simply allowed to rest in God and enjoy a perpetual paradise with Him.
Today, Jesus offers us the invitation to come back to that place of paradise and rest. When looking at the Bible in its entirety, we learn that rest can be found in two places: Time and Person. First, rest was time (the seventh day). Then rest became a Person (Jesus Christ).If we want to experience the greatest dream man can experience, if we want to experience a dream greater than the American dream, if we want to achieve perfection and mastery, it won’t come from the amount of time we work, but from the amount of time we rest. The time we spend with Jesus. In prayer, in the Bible, in church, in our relationship with Him.
Hard work is right here, in front of us. It’s free for whoever wants it. But so is rest. Rest for your mind, rest for your heart, rest for your soul. Take some extra time today: have a talk with Jesus and rest in Him.
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28).
I recently undertook the difficult task of losing weight. I had been kicking the proverbial “can down the road” for too long, and it was time. I have lost twenty pounds to date. Although I have more work to do, I am already enjoying the results.
What do you think was the hardest part about losing weight? Counting calories? No. Not eating after six o’clock in the evening? No. Putting those glazed doughnuts from the gas station down? Not easy, but no. The hardest part of losing weight was STARTING. Starting is often the hardest part of finishing a big task.
What is your big task? Is there something you have always wanted to accomplish? Better yet, what is your dream? Dreams are powerful. Dreams often stretch us and call us to do more and to be more. Dreams pull us out of our complacent and ordinary existence and chart new courses for our lives. Everyone ought to have big dreams, especially when it relates to their relationship with God, their family, and serving others.
Here is something we should know about dreams. There comes a point in life where dreams stop being a future possibility and become a past regret. There is an expiration date on dreams. For this reason, you must give your dream the gift of a start. Some people cringe at the idea of being “that person” who doesn’t finish what he starts, so he never begins. But we must remember that we can’t ever finish what we don’t start. When we start, we give our dream a chance to transition from hope to reality.
We can become creative with our reasons for procrastinating: we tell ourselves we are too busy right now; we’ll wait until things quiet down a bit. Unfortunately, we pay a high price for delaying needed upgrades in our lives. When we delay, our walk with God becomes more distant, our kids miss another year of meaningful connection, we lose more traction in our marriages.
In truth, the guilt and frustration we feel from not starting is often worse than the pain of actually doing the hard work. Yes, starting may be daunting! It will be an uphill climb; but once we get over the hump, momentum takes over.
The devil wants you to continue your life in a holding pattern. He doesn’t want you to begin the journey of a better you. But Jesus is beckoning you forward, as His word encourages us, “the Lord rejoices to see the work begin…” (Zechariah 4:10, NLT). What do you need to START today?
During a recent airport layover, I tuned into a news show which was covering a congressional hearing. The primary purpose of the hearing was for the senators to ask questions of a witness. It was frustrating, however, as I watched each politician not really ask questions but instead spent most of their allotted time expressing their own views on the subject at hand. I could sense my attitude changing as I began to align with those that were expressing my espoused views. But I was quickly reminded of an experience I had not long after I committed my life to the Lord.
During the 2004 presidential election cycle I attended a men’s conference. During his sermon, a preacher yelled into the microphone “We will never change America if we elect a Democrat to the White House!” Just about every man among the fifteen hundred stood up and cheered.
The preacher didn’t acknowledge the cheers, but instead continued on with his sermon and a few minutes later he yelled back into the microphone “Listen to me, listen to me! We will never change America if we elect a Republican to the White House!” The applause was sparse and the room was, for the most part, silent. He then said something that changed my view on politics. He said, “Listen to me, if you put your faith in a political party, it is idolatry.” Ouch! That was clearly a rebuke to God’s people becoming wrapped up in the divisive world of politics.
Many of us too strongly identify ourselves as conservative or liberal; Republican or Democrat. Politics, by its very nature, divides us, and often our misdirected passions force us to choose sides and create enemies. Unfortunately, these misdirected passions have a tendency to find their way into the church. As Christians, we must be careful about aligning ourselves politically. We were not formed by our Creator to be Democrats or Republicans. We were formed and created in the image of God to be His children and ambassadors, with the primary goal of leading others to Him.
Politics distorts our perspective toward others. It divides us by causing us to focus on our differences and puts us in danger of demonizing those with differing views. While I may have my own political leanings, I’ve come to understand that no one has been won to Christ by sharing political views. People are won to Christ when we exemplify His love, grace, and mercy in our everyday lives.
Let’s challenge ourselves: What would our perspective be towards others if before we grab the newspaper, turn on our favorite news show, or tune into our favorite talk radio station, we opened our Bibles and sought the kingdom of God? In Matthew 6:33, Jesus said to seek the kingdom of God first. It is only when we seek the kingdom of God before anything else that we are able see everything through the lens of Christ. As Christians, seeing others as Christ sees them is the only perspective that really matters.
Summer is upon us with all the busyness that comes with it. This is the season of church camps and vacations and Fourth of July, where we the people remember and celebrate our independence as a nation.
The Declaration of Independence says, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
This was the basis for our quest for freedom from the tyranny of the British kingdom, and as rich and powerful as these words are for the freedom we now enjoy, they pale in comparison to the words of King David found in the Word of God. You see, it is not our declaration of independence that will save us in the end, but it is our declaration of dependence; our dependence on God for deliverance from the tyranny of Satan's kingdom; from the sin that so easily ensnares us.
David expresses his dependence on God in Psalm 18:1-3:
“I will love thee, O Lord, my strength.
The Lord is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer;
my God, my strength, in whom I will trust;
my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.
I will call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised:
so shall I be saved from mine enemies.”
David passed the importance of this declaration on to his son Solomon, who penned Proverbs 3:5-6:
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart;
and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him,
and he shall direct thy paths.”
These verses of Scripture are important to me in my current season; there were decisions to be made and it was imperative that I hear from God. I cannot trust my heart; the Bible teaches us that it is “deceitfully wicked.” To make the correct choices I needed the Lord to direct my path.
So, every morning in prayer I would begin by bringing my declaration of dependence to the Lord. I would speak it out loud before Him and confess that I can't do this without Him. The Lord is faithful and meets us in prayer and without fail every concern that I brought to Him was addressed, not always the way I wanted, but always what I needed to move forward. He just let me know that “He’s got this,” and I knew that I just need to trust Him and continue. I have come to the understanding that I need to do this daily no matter what season I am in; every morning making my declaration of dependence and then managing that decision by walking in obedience to His will. This is true freedom.
Last summer, I was running down Huron Road and a car slowed down and rolled down its window. I stopped, took my headphones out, and went over to the car. There was a carload of people and they needed directions to the Radisson Hotel and Conference Center. I told them how to get there, made them repeat the directions back to me, wished them well, put my headphones back in and went on my merry way. A few days later, I was on a bike ride down a country road and a car slowed down, rolled down its window and the driver asked directions to a church. I knew where it was, told them how to get there, they thanked me, and I was back on the road. A few days later when I was running, it happened again. Three times in about a week. I smiled and said, “Okay, Lord; got it.” I could get annoyed that all these people were interrupting me and keeping me from reaching my goal, but — why wouldn’t I gladly stop what I was doing to give guidance and directions to someone who was lost?
Our world does not look fondly on interruptions. We need to have a goal and a purpose, make a commitment; we need to focus, and avoid distractions to reach our goal. So many books have been written and systems are in place to help you reach your goals, get organized, be efficient that it’s an industry of its own. Now, I am all about reaching your goals, just ask my kids: “You can do anything, be the best you can be, learn as much as you can, you can do hard things, I believe in you, you can do this.”
But: Jesus. He had a purpose second to none, He was focused on a pretty high level goal—saving the world—and yet; He allowed Himself to be interrupted. There are some absolutely beautiful words in the Bible. “Jesus heard. Jesus stopped. Jesus turned.” He never said, “I’m kinda busy here, I’m about to raise someone from the dead, I need to focus.” I know it sounds ridiculous when we say it about Him, but that’s exactly what we do. He never did. Read the Gospels. He heard. He stopped. He turned. How many times was Jesus on His way somewhere and was interrupted by someone who needed something? More often than not, the miracles that He performed happened when He was interrupted and inconvenienced. Children were blessed because of an interruption. The blind could see again, the lame walked, the woman stopped bleeding, the dead were brought back to life. What we call distractions and interruptions, He turned into miracles.
We say we want to be like Jesus. If we really want to be like Jesus, we need to allow for and even welcome interruptions and inconvenience. That comes more naturally for some than others. Living in the moment can be learned, however. Life has a way of teaching you to be flexible. Children have a way of getting you used to being interrupted. And Jesus is our example of how it’s done. Maybe you can’t give up every Tuesday night to teach a Bible study right now. But we can all spare fifteen minutes a day to give directions to someone who is lost and needs direction. You can teach a frustrated child how to tie his shoes. You can offer an encouraging word. You can give a cup of water in His name.
Sometimes we are so focused on working in God’s church, praying for miracles, signs, and wonders, that we miss this moment right here. Right now. Get up from your desk, put away your phone, drop your agenda, and look around. Let’s really follow Jesus. We need to hear. We need to stop. We need to turn. We need to help. It could be that a miracle is about to happen. We can welcome that interruption.
—originally posted May 2016—
A story is told about a factory burning down December 9, 1914. It had been owned and managed by the great inventor Thomas Edison. As the factory burned, great geysers of green flame, fueled by the laboratory chemicals, shot into the air. Fire departments from eight towns rushed to the scene, but the building was leveled. Much of Edison’s work was destroyed in the process. Many friends and well-wishers, expecting Edison to be devastated, sent messages of condolence and support. This was his reply: “I am 67; but I am not too old to make a fresh start."
Within three weeks, the Edison factories were restored to a semblance of order. Soon after that they were again running two shifts. The speed of the recovery, one observer said, was almost as spectacular as the disaster.
Could it be that Edison’s bold words reflect the desire of your heart – the desire to make a fresh start? Maybe you’re tired of the way things are going and you feel like it’s time to make some adjustments in your life. Or perhaps you feel trapped by harmful habits, behaviors, and attitudes that keep you from being the man or woman of God you desire to become. It doesn’t matter what age you are or how long you’ve been on the Christian journey, fresh starts are for everybody.
Feeling a little stuck is normal. Sadly, many people give up too quickly, or don’t put real thought or effort into starting over. God is calling you to a life that is more abundant than the one you’re experiencing right now! It’s time to clean up our messes and make a radical commitment to a fresh start.
The key ingredients for a fresh start will be available to you as your look for strength to begin anew; the Word of God, prayer, focused fasting, and spiritual guidance. Let us harness the time God has given us and desire for improvement and make a fresh start.
When I was in high school, I was home one day cleaning out my basement (like the perfect 16-year-old I was), and I found something extraordinary: a keyboard. And not one of those plug-into-a-computer old keyboards. An electric piano. Who in the world finds a keyboard -- much less loses a keyboard? How in the world had I forgotten it was down there? How in the world had I been so oblivious to the fact that it was in the basement all this time?
In reality, I hadn’t been in the basement for a long time. Back in the day, my brother and I would play music down there for hours. We would play pool, foosball, watch movies and goof around. When he left for college, I spent more time in the main level of the house and in my room. There was a piano in our living room, after all. The basement became a place to throw things that weren’t needed anymore.
In the Bible, there was a young king named Josiah. His father died at a young age, so he was named king at just eight years old. He had a choice to either live like his previous ancestors and not honor God, or to turn over a new leaf and worship the one true God. He chose wisely, cleaning out the temple to re-establish worship as a priority. In doing so, something extraordinary was found: the Book of the Law. The Word of God. Who in the world finds the Word of God…much less loses the Word of God? How in the world had they forgotten it was in there? How in the world had they been so oblivious to the fact that it was in the temple all this time?
The reality of these two stories show us something insightful: we can forget about what we don’t spend time with. I forgot about the keyboard in the basement since I stopped spending time there. Josiah’s generation forgot about the Word of God since they stopped spending time in the temple. When our hearts are disconnected from God’s presence and we aren’t intentional about letting God’s Word direct our steps, we wander away from what we know is true north.
To stay connected to God’s presence this week, we can pray two very simple yet profound prayers that David prayed:
"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my strength and my redeemer." Psalm 19:14
"Your Word, I have hidden in my heart, that I might not sin against You." Psalm 119:11
“I can’t wait till I turn 16!”
“I can’t wait until this weekend!”
“I can’t wait to retire!”
“I can’t wait until summer!”
Does any of this sound familiar? How many of us have made statements like this? Okay, everyone can put their hands down. Playing the waiting game is not an easy part of life, is it? None of us enjoys being ‘in-between’ stages of life, or projects, or jobs, etc.
However, the problem with having an ‘in-between’ mentality is that we often lose the significance of the present moment. Instead of being productive and enjoying every day, we just stand still until the day we’ve been waiting for finally arrives. While big moments in life seem to mark the years of our life, it’s all the little moments in between that lead up to those big moments.
The Bible is full of people who were living ‘in-between’ big moments of their life, but they didn’t allow their present moment to go to waste.
- Abraham was promised to be the father of a nation, but he didn’t have his family until he was 100 years old. (During his in-between time, he never stopped following God by faith.)
- Noah was promised that the earth would be flooded, but it didn’t happen for at least 100 years. (During his in-between time, he never stopped building an ark.)
- Joseph was promised to be a leader over his family, but it didn’t take place until approximately 13 years later. (During his in-between time, he never stopped serving others with the gifts God gave to him)
- Paul was called to represent Jesus on a grand scale, but ended up back in his hometown of Tarsus, almost unknown for many years. (During his in-between time, he immersed himself in the Scriptures and in prayer.)
I could go on, but I think you get the point. Think about the things God has promised to you. Think about the plan for your life. The upcoming events, education plans, career plans, family plans, ministry plans: Are you so focused on those future moments that you’re stuck... in between?
Hebrews 12:1 “...since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.”
Each race is won not by big leaps but by individual steps. Little steps in between the starting line and the finish line. Let me ask you a question: “What are you doing with your in-between time?”
Jim Collins wrote a business best seller, Good to Great. The book highlights the common practices of companies that had a long track record of being great companies, not just good companies.
Millions of people, including myself, have carefully read each page looking for opportunities to grow the teams we lead in our respective lanes of life. I recommend the book; it’s an enlightening read. And when you read your Bible, you might notice that Jesus Christ has His own version of the Good to Great principle.
We are introduced to a ‘good’ man in John 3 who came to Jesus under cover of darkness. The man’s name was Nicodemus, and he was a Pharisee. A Pharisee was essentially a career theologian who knew the Jewish laws and could quote most of the Old Testament by heart. Pharisees were known to go to great lengths to not only study the law, but also to obey the law in the most stringent of ways.
One more item for Nicodemus’ resume, he was a member of the Sanhedrin. This was a group of seventy men who collectively had jurisdiction over all the religious affairs of Israel. Sadly, most of the Pharisees were spiritually bankrupt; Jesus certainly said so in Matthew 23:27. The Pharisees were unabashed adversaries and antagonists to Jesus’ ministry. Together they often confronted Jesus, falsely accused him and vainly tried to ensnare him in debates.
Nicodemus was an exception. Nicodemus was what we would call one of the ‘good guys.’ He was one of the rare Pharisees who had a strong hunger for truth.
Incredibly, out of his spiritual hunger, Nicodemus reached out to Jesus with sincere questions and an open heart. The fact that Nicodemus came at night clues us in to that fact that he was not completely comfortable having this association known. Nicodemus pressed through his reluctance and took a big risk to have an ‘off the record’ encounter with Jesus.
Nicodemus is a case study of someone who was as good and sincere as one could ever hope to be, yet Jesus was preparing to have a Good to Great conversation with him. Jesus told Nicodemus, “Very truly I tell YOU, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again” (John 3:3, NKJV).
Jesus was telling a good man there was a greater experience that was necessary in his life. Jesus was essentially saying, “Nick, you’re a good man, but good isn’t enough to get you into heaven. You need to let go of good and step into great.
Many people with far less impressive credentials than Nicodemus are living with the assumption that they will go to heaven because they are a good person. Jesus was speaking to all of us when He talked to Nicodemus about being born again. To be born again is to repent of our sins, to be water-baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, and to be filled with God’s Holy Spirit (Acts 2:38). When we are born again, we become a new creation; we are not turning over a new leaf, we are stepping into a new life (2 Corinthians 5:17).
Are you ready to transition from good to great ? To be born again is the greatest experience this side of heaven and ultimately gives us entrance into God’s great and eternal Kingdom.
My two favorite times of the year are September and January. Back to school and Happy New year; both times of beginning and fresh starts. I usually take the week between Christmas and New Year’s Day to debrief my yearly goals and set new ones for the upcoming year.
I have a lot of goals. I always do. I have prayer goals, Bible study goals, memorization goals. Running goals, writing goals, reading goals, travel goals. Health goals, marriage goals, family goals, friendship goals, cleaning goals. Work goals, mentoring goals, kindness goals, gift-giving goals.
It’s ridiculous, I freely admit it. But I love it. I go through a lot of Post-it notes in my deliberations! My desk is currently cluttered with half-finished lists and Post-it note suggestions for myself. In fact, I am leaving for vacation next week and I have a goal to finish the three books I am currently reading by then so I can start fresh with my January booklist when I settle in on the plane. I have given myself today and tomorrow to curate my lists to see what will emerge for my 2019 goals. O happy days!
This is a great big beautiful world and we have a great big beautiful God. There is so much to experience, and we have a limitless capacity to learn and grow and help and love! I have started learning a new language; maybe I will see how fluent I can get this year. I saw on Twitter someone’s goal was to read all Shakespeare’s works. Sounds fun! I want to turn one of the upstairs bedrooms into a library. Maybe a good goal would be to read every book in my house before I buy any more! Full disclosure. I even have a list of goals that I don’t put on my formal list. But I still want to low-key accomplish those, too, because really, we only get one life; so why not?
But this year seems different somehow. Last fall, in my thirst for knowledge, growth, and sense of purpose, I severely overcommitted myself. My schedule was relentless and exhausting! It was bad, even for me! I have a sort of pathological optimism about what I can accomplish in a day, a week, a year, a lifetime. And I am (finally) learning that I have limits. It’s a lesson I have been avoiding most of my life! I accomplished many good things and expanded my skillset. And I believe I have made a difference in some lives this year. Although I do celebrate that, I find myself looking more closely at what I did not accomplish, which is the tax I must pay for overreaching. Amid my sea of Post-its, I sense a recurring impression that fewer goals might be the way to go. I tried at first not to acknowledge it, but it was persistent.
Yesterday was our first day back at church with regular office hours. The pastoral staff kicked off the year with an hour of prayer. Afterwards, we lingered, basking in the afterglow of prayer, and everyone began sharing their focus and goals for the year. I was caught off guard, and was slightly panicking, because tomorrow is the day I am goal setting; I’m not ready today! Had I known we were having this conversation today, I would have been less relaxed with family over the break and separated myself from them to diligently set my yearly goals so I would be prepared! Oh. Ah.
I have been studying the life of David for the past few months. David: I love him. I admire him and I relate to him. His passion, his accomplishments, His faith, his poetic spirit, even his flaws. Especially his flaws. And oh, to have God say to me like He said to David, that I have a heart like His! We celebrate the story of young David defeating the giant Goliath with a slingshot. We encourage our children to have faith like David, and to remember God is always with them. But there is another story about David fighting the Philistines later in his life, and I never before related it with the first time. The first time David fought the Philistine Goliath, he was full of faith and youthful energy and he did it alone. No one stepped forward to confront this giant mocking their God and their nation, and no one stepped forward to help an untried non-warrior, whose only company before this was sheep, not soldiers. David crushed it. Literally.
David encounters the Philistines again, much later in his story. In between these two battles, David has both comforted and fled the former king of Israel, fought many battles, led a nation to serve and defend the name of their God, survived a kingdom overthrow by his own son, as well as enduring (and causing) many personal troubles. This time, however, it was different. Listen to 2 Samuel 21:15: “Once again there was a battle between the Philistines and Israel. David went down with his men to fight against the Philistines, and he became exhausted” (emphasis mine). This time David was not alone. He had spent his life faithfully serving God and faithfully serving His people and at this point he had faithful men by his side when the battle started. Four Philistines were slain this time, slain by four of David’s men! His life, faith and commitment inspired them to believe in this cause.
And did you notice the exhausted part? Yeah, that got me too. Serving your purpose is exhausting! It takes everything! David’s men, well-trained, stepped in and did the actual fighting, but at the end of the chapter, it shows the Philistines fell at the hands of David and his men. Letting others step in helped David accomplish his goal. Read to the end of the chapter when you get a chance. But don’t stop there! The next chapter is a mind-blowing song of praise by David that may very well be his best work! He doesn’t sound exhausted here when he says “You broaden the path beneath me, so that my ankles do not turn” (2 Samuel 22:37). As a runner, I can appreciate the thoughtfulness and safety of God broadening David’s path. A broader path also allows runners (and warriors) to travel side by side. What better way is there?
So there I sat on the first pew with my cohorts, not sure what my goals were specifically, but having a sense I needed to listen to the promptings that less is more, when next to me Pastor Dustin shared his goal for the year: to become more obsessed with the Cross. That’s it. The Cross, nothing less and nothing more. Genius in its simplicity, but holding everything inside of it, as the Cross does. Stunning.
My turn came, and I did have the courage to say less goals to accomplish more. It sounded foreign to my ears, but still rang true. I want what I do to feed my purpose, not slow my purpose, and I walked pretty close to the edge of that this past year. I believe my true purpose is to help others find their individual purpose in God. I want to get better at that. Theodore Roosevelt said, “Far and away the best prize that life has to offer is the chance to work hard at work worth doing.” I believe that and I try to live that. I know it’s a luxury to spend my days as I choose to reach that goal; not everyone is so fortunate, and I do not take it lightly. I can choose to be exhausted in the work I believe worth doing! But my goal is to choose more wisely; to not miss the forest for the trees, to not miss the people for the lists, to not miss the purpose for the Post-its.
I will still spend the next day or two planning my year, deliberating and organizing, getting it all down on paper, because that’s who I am. Who knows? I may even tackle Shakespeare! But I resolve in 2019 to let God broaden my path, so that if my destination ever veers off to a different fork in the road, I will have shown others how keep walking in their purpose, so the work worth doing gets done, whether it’s on my list or not.
Jesus said to the apostle Paul in Acts 26:16, “But rise and stand on your feet; for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to make you a minister and a witness both of the things which you have seen and of the things which I will yet reveal to you.” These are words that speak to us as well. We have purpose, God wants us to understand our purpose, and our purpose can be expressed in every area and season of our lives.
What is our purpose? The Oxford English Dictionary defines purpose as “the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists, a person's sense of resolve or determination.” And Jesus said, “I have appeared to you for this purpose.” So our purpose is tied to His purpose, our purpose is a bigger idea than just doing something for Him.
This summer I was challenged to define my purpose, and this process was very revealing to me. I have lived as a Christian for 24 years but I have never sought out to try and understand why the Lord made Himself known to me personally. What is my Acts 26:16 revelation? My adventure has been very rewarding, and I encourage you to reflect on this for yourself. What is your purpose? Why were you created.
Jesus has revealed Himself to us so he can make us ministers. One definition of minister is an under-oarsman. I have often watched the Lawrence University rowing team out on the Fox River. I am drawn to the sport of rowing; the team is amazing to watch. Oarsmen must be in sync for forward movement. The oarsmen don’t determine the direction or the speed of the boat. As ministers, or under-oarsmen, our greatest purpose in church ministry is to be in sync, in unity. We need to row together s a team.
Remember the children’s song?
Row, row, row your boat
Gently down the stream,
Merrily merrily, merrily, merrily
Life is but a dream
I was reminded of a sermon by the same name “Row, row, row your boat” preached by my late pastor, Reverend Jack Yonts II, relating to this song. He said:
Remember to keep
Your focus on the goal
Heaven is reality
Life is but a dream.
Ultimately Jesus is leading us and gives vision and direction. He has made us ministers, so let’s row, row, row our boat. Let’s live His purpose for us in unity with the church body. Merrily I might add, because there is joy in service, and our eyes are on the goal of reaching Heaven. Heaven is the reality, life is but a dream. This life lasts but a moment; so in this moment live your purpose. In the words of Jean-Paul Sartre, “Only the guy who isn’t rowing has time to rock the boat.”
You are wonderful! The Bible says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. See? You were created to be wonderful! I love human beings! They are just wonderful. It’s built right in! That’s why people go to the moon and write songs and climb mountains and run marathons and paint landscapes.
You have it in you to be wonderful whether you acknowledge God or not. It’s built in to everyone, as kind of a common grace. We have intelligence, sensitivity, the will to overcome; so many traits that God created right inside us.
As if that isn’t enough, you are created in God’s image. Don’t ever forget that! So everything that He is...well, you can be, too. He is a creative God; therefore, you are a creative being. It’s what and who He is so it’s what and who you are. You have the capacity for wonderful, creative works.
You are awesome all by yourself. But when you add God to your own wonderfulness, the results will astound even you. You will literally be able to change the world. Why wouldn’t you try? So let’s think big. Pray prayers that scare you. Dream dreams so big they are impossible. You need to live a story only God can tell. Because when you and God fuse together in purpose and power, together you create an uncommon grace. It will change your life. It will change the lives of those around you and it absolutely will change the world.
But here’s the danger. Sometimes we get so focused on this, and getting it right, and call it God’s Will for My Life, that we put goals, ministry, and even people into the future. Instead of asking what is God’s will for my life, ask: What is God’s will for the next ten minutes? Or tonight? Or this weekend? Then do it. Instead of asking God to send you to another country, look around. Who needs you today? Go there. Through these acts, your future will appear, sooner and better than you would have thought. How wonderful.
To calibrate means to:
- mark (a gauge or instrument) with a standard scale of readings.
- correlate the readings of (an instrument) with those of a standard in order to check the instrument's accuracy.
- adjust (experimental results) to take external factors into account or to allow comparison with other data.
In other words, to calibrate means to get back to the standard. Calibration happens all the time. We recalibrate our clocks, thermometers, scales, printers, ovens, etc. When we “recalibrate” something, it means that it has already been calibrated, but has gotten off the standard. Some items can be dangerous if not properly recalibrated.
Summer is a time that should be relaxing. However, if you’re like most of us, your schedule needs to be recalibrated come September. Maybe you’re used to staying up late watching movies, and maybe you’ve been working less. For the students out there, severe recalibration must take place to get back in the habit of doing homework.
No, this isn’t just a feel-good blog about getting ready for fall with pumpkin spice lattes and “trying to do better”. Recalibration is all about getting back to the standard. So, what is God’s standard?
Target employees wear red shirts. That’s standard dress for a Target employee. That’s how they are known. But what do disciples do? What are they known for? According to John 13:35, the “red shirt” of discipleship is loving one another.
When we read God’s Word, it should change us. When is the last time you’ve read the Bible and been convicted about something?
That’s exactly what recalibration is.
Nobody is expected to remember every verse they’ve ever read. So, when we read the Bible, we should open our hearts and pray God, let me read Your Word with an open heart and I ask You to convict me in any area that I’m not trying to be like you. Recalibrate my heart to align more closely with your Word.
We’re terrible judges. If setting the standard was up to us, individually, we’d all have different standards. That’s why the Bible is the necessary standard for us to recalibrate our hearts. Our hearts, the Bible tells us, are deceitful and desperately wicked (Jeremiah 17:9). Ouch. If only we had something that could discern our hearts. Well, according to Hebrews 4:12, we do. Aha! The Word of God! It’s quick, it’s powerful, and it DISCERNS the thoughts and intents of our hearts. There’s the standard.
We must use the Word of God as our standard and align our lives with it.
If you want to be a disciple of Jesus, there are a lot of things that He teaches us in His Word; here are a few examples:
If you’re not reading SOMETHING in God’s Word every day, you’re missing out on a prosperous life. (Joshua 1:8) We have a great opportunity here.
There is great power when we humble ourselves daily and pray. 2 Chronicles 7:14 tells us God will forgive and heal when we do this! In addition, Matthew 26:41, Jesus encourages us to pray so that we don’t enter into temptation. The reasoning? Our flesh is weak.
Bible reading and prayer are essentials in our relationship with Jesus. If we let it, it can become cliché. There is nothing, however, that is cliché about a compass that points north. When calibrated correctly, we expect a compass to point north. If it’s not pointed that direction, we call it “broken”.
If you feel like your life has been pointing a little “northeast”, and you know your relationship with God could use some recalibration, start with His Word and talk with Him. Carve time out of your day to realign your heart with the Bible, and the standards we find in the Scriptures. There is great joy and great opportunity to be used as a tool of God when we pattern our lives by His instructions!
In the second chapter of Titus, we read: "Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in perseverance… Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips, not enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good."
This message is obviously addressed to older men and women. It is a fitting subject for our time and place in history. America is now the oldest society in the history of the world. Does this surprise you? It’s true! There has never been a society with as high a percentage of older people. Material comfort, medical care and a low birth rate have led to what is called the “graying of America”. In our country, the number of people over 65 has passed the number of teenagers. There are about 23 million teenagers in America. (I know sometimes it seems like much more!) But America’s current population boasts close to 35 million people over 65.
What’s more, in 25 years one out of every five people will be over 65, and one out of every ten will be over 80. The graying of America truly is here. We see it all around us. Sometimes we even laugh at it. Bob Hope said, "You know you're old when the candles cost more than the cake." And Agatha Christie wrote on one occasion that she married an archaeologist. Someone asked, “Why would you marry an archaeologist?” to which she replied, "Because the older I get the more he'll appreciate me."
We can have a humorous approach to this. You know, they say there are only three stages in life: youth, adulthood, and "my, you're looking well." And when they start saying that to you, you know where you are.
When I was young teenager, I had an aunt who took care of elderly people, I remember one day in particular, an elderly gentleman was sitting in a rocking chair. As I passed by, out of the clear blue he said to me something that has stuck with me all these years. “Remember, when you have children, be sure you spend time with them.” I was kind of surprised. Was he saying that in his life he didn’t give his children the time he thought he should have? Did he mess up and was saying don’t do what I did? Or was he just trying to give a word of encouragement about raising a family? I guess I will never know.
Now I have come to that place in my life when I find myself looking back thinking of the blessed journey I have had; serving God with my wife, children and grandchildren.
The book of Ecclesiastes gives us insight. The writer says in the first verse of the final chapter, "Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth." Enjoy God while you're young; know God while you're young. Let God be the central figure in your life while you're young.
The aging of Christians is a blessing. It's the aged people in the congregation that provide its strength, its stability and its wisdom. Older believers, should they be in great numbers in the future in the church, are going to make the church a better place, a richer place. The mature godliness will be a benediction to the body of Christ. The aging of America means the aging of the church; the aging of the church is a great, great blessing.
The psalmist says in Psalm 71:17, "O God, Thou hast taught me from my youth, and I still declare Thy wondrous deeds. And even when I am old and gray, O God, do not forsake me, until I declare Thy strength to this generation, and Thy power to all who are to come." Give me a ministry in my old age because I can talk about Your strength, and I can talk about Your power because I've seen it for so many years - I've lived it. In Psalm 92, a very similar prayer rises from the heart of the psalmist, beginning in verse 12, "The righteous man will flourish like a palm tree, he will grow like a cedar in Lebanon. Planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still yield fruit in old age; they will be full of sap and very green, to declare that the Lord is upright." Those who can best declare the character of God are those who have walked with Him longest.
In 2007, America was developing an appetite for “fail” videos, and Fox News posted a video of a waitress falling through the plate glass window of a restaurant. A security camera captured the waitress cleaning a table after the restaurant had closed. In most fail videos you can guess how the fail is going to happen; you can forecast the moment by observing the risk. In this video however, there is no way to predict how or when the accident will happen. In one moment the waitress is standing in the middle of the room putting dirty glasses on her tray and without warning, she trips, stumbles, and careens through the window in epic fashion.
This story reminds me of the Apostle Peter on the night he betrayed Jesus. In Matthew 26:31-35, Jesus told the disciples they would all stumble and then scatter when he was taken away. Peter took offense to the very idea and told Jesus that while he could see the others failing, he would never fail Jesus. Jesus corrected Peter and told him he would deny his Lord before the rooster crowed three times.
Later in the evening, Peter seems to be holding his ground; his resolve is strong to stand with Jesus. The eighteenth chapter of John records that during Jesus’ arrest, Peter brandishes his sword and cuts off the ear of one of the captors. Peter is just like that waitress standing in the middle of the room, far from the plate glass window. And yet, by the end of the night, his stumble happened and Peter’s fall is nothing less than spectacular: it was an epic fail moment. Peter denied Jesus, not once, but three times. (Luke 22:54-62)
I’m so thankful the story doesn’t end there. The resurrected Savior went out of His way to restore not only the severed relationship between Peter and himself, but also Peter’s purpose as a preacher and leader. (John 21:15-19) On the inaugural day of the church age, Peter was the keynote speaker. He delivered one of the most important messages regarding salvation in the entire Bible. (Acts 2:38) Later, the people had such high regard for Peter’s ministry, they would lay their sick on the streets when he passed by, hoping his shadow would pass over and God would heal them.
We’ve all careened through the proverbial plate glass window. We’ve all had epic fails, and longed for a redo. The big truth for today is this: even our worst mistakes can be redeemed. Jesus put Peter back on the path to his calling. He didn’t define him by his worst decision. In fact, Jesus died to remit Peter’s sins and restore his soul. Jesus did this for all of us. Yes, some people may memorialize your fail and never let you forget when your life was broken, but God has more for you. Instead of shame, God will give you a life of double honor. (Isaiah 61:7)
1 Peter 5:10 But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you. (NKJV)
A few years back, there was a story about a couple, who were casually walking around their property, when they noticed what looked like some metal sticking out of the ground. As they began to dig and get a closer look, they realized that someone buried eight metal cans in what was now their yard. Even more fascinating than the cans that were buried was what was inside of the cans: 1,400 gold coins dating back to the mid 1800s! It turns out that the coins were worth approximately ten million dollars!
What an amazing find! It’s the stuff of fairytales; something we may have dreamed of coming across. Imagine what we could do with ten million dollars!!
This couple stumbling upon this hidden treasure makes me wonder. How long did they live on their property before they found the hidden treasure that was right in their backyard?
How many times did they look out their kitchen window into that backyard and not even know the treasure was there? Maybe they had difficult nights when they stared out that window wondering how they were going to pay their bills and make ends meet. Maybe they mowed their lawn right next to or above a treasure that would change their lives. If only it wasn’t hidden from plain sight.
It’s amazing how many of us go through life everyday, trusting only in our own ability to accomplish our goals. We trust in our own ability to visualize our future; our own ability to ‘take care of business’, our own ability to CONTROL THE UNIVERSE...and yet we lack the ability to recognize the hidden treasure right in front of us.
What hidden treasure am I speaking of? A hidden treasure that’s much more valuable than ten million dollars worth of gold coins. “What?! How can that be?!”
The hidden treasure I’m speaking of, the one that if we’ll recognize it, will forever change our lives. The one that truly is the answer to all of our problems, needs, and desires. The greatest hidden treasure I’m speaking of is Jesus.
There is nothing more valuable in this world than having a relationship with Jesus Christ. “What does Jesus offer me?” you ask. For starters, He guarantees peace that surpasses understanding. He guarantees an unconditional love regardless of your past. He guarantees provision for your basic needs. And the greatest guarantee He offers is eternal life: the kingdom of heaven.
What could be better than that?! Without the guarantee of the kingdom of heaven, what good are all the other treasures of this world? What good is ten million dollars if I don’t have anything to look forward to after this life?
In the gospel of Matthew, chapter 13 and verse 44, Jesus said this about the kingdom of heaven: “...the kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and hid; and for joy over it he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.”
The value of the kingdom of heaven is priceless. The kingdom of heaven is worth more than all the treasures in this world. So much so, that when you find it, it would be well worth it to trade in all other dreams of finding buried treasure, and just focus on the kingdom of heaven.
In comparing the man Jesus mentioned in Matthew 13 to the couple who found the gold coins, I wonder how many times that man passed by that field with the hidden treasure in it, and never even noticed it? I wonder how many times he had passed that field in his life before he finally found the hidden treasure of the kingdom of heaven? How many times had he dreamt of finding something more in life? How often was he beaten down by life, worn out, confused, struggling just to get by? And here he was, walking right past the very thing he needed....the answer to all his dreams.
What about you? Have you discovered the hidden treasure that Jesus offers? Has the kingdom of heaven been revealed to you so it’s your primary focus in life? The one thing you value more than any treasure of this world?
Life happens quickly. Life can be demanding and challenging. You don’t have to do it alone. Don’t move too quickly. You might be moving right past a hidden treasure.
There’s something wonderful about catching up with a friend over a cup of coffee. You’re both so busy these days, but elated you can spare an hour to get up to speed about each other’s lives: the job, the kids, the spouse, your mutual friends and so on. Your friend actually cares about the things in your life others might dismiss. You can vent your frustrations to her without being judged. He may not be able to solve your problem, but you feel better just having talked it over. You give and receive advice and pats on the back, and before long, you’re finishing each others sentences again. By the time your cappuccino is nothing but a few drops of foam and all that’s left of your scone is crumbs, you’ve managed to solve most of the world’s problems together. You say goodbye with hugs and promises that it won’t be so long next time. You leave the coffee shop with a spring in your step, satisfied in this well-spent hour. “Why don’t we do this more often?” you think to yourself.
If you are reading this, chances are God is important to you. People are important to you. But amid our to-do lists, schedules, jobs, classes and volunteer work, it is easy to overlook the importance of spending time with a friend, and even spending time with God. Prayer can get mundane if it’s just one of your daily chores, and it can be intimidating to pray if you don’t have much experience. You don’t need experience to talk to a friend over a cup of coffee; you just have to make the time. You don’t need a special vocabulary to talk to God, either. You just have to start a conversation. Talk to Him about your life: the job, the kids, the spouse, your mutual friends and so on. God actually cares about all the little things in your life that others might dismiss. You can vent your frustrations to Him, and He is able to solve your problems! You give Him praise, He gives you advice, and you start your day with a spring in your step, satisfied in this well-spent hour. So grab a cup of coffee and catch up with the one Friend who always has time for you: Jesus!
While shepherds kept their watching
O'er silent flocks by night,
Behold, throughout the heavens,
There shone a holy light.
The shepherds feared and trembled
When lo, above the earth
Rang out the angel chorus
That hailed our Savior's birth!
Go, tell it on the mountain,
Over the hills and everywhere.
Go, tell it on the mountain
That Jesus Christ is born.
Although it might not seem like a huge detail, have you ever wondered why… the shepherds? Why not people of power, like kings? The shepherds were dirty, forgotten people that didn’t have much influence on society. However, the angels appeared to them. Perhaps it’s because God has always been fond of shepherds (Abraham, Moses, David). Perhaps God wanted to foreshadow that He would be the Great Shepherd. Perhaps he wanted to show society that social status wasn’t important. Regardless, Jesus was born and the angels came to the shepherds. Although some of us undoubtedly will go on to make our mark on the world, most of us will live a life outside the spotlight, one that will be considered insignificant by society at large. But we are not insignificant to Jesus. If Jesus reached to lowly, forgotten shepherds, we can be sure He’ll reach to us. It doesn’t matter to Him how unworthy we appear to be on the surface. If we humble ourselves before Him, He will reach to us.
What is most powerful about these shepherds is what happened afterward. One encounter with Jesus changed them forever. They couldn’t help but share with others all they saw and experienced. One encounter with Jesus will leave us changed! There is no way to fully repay Him for visiting us and for pouring out His mercy and grace upon us. All we can do is share the message of that love and mercy with as many people as possible.
Christmas is one of the few times of the year when people are more likely to accept an invitation to church. Whether it’s a special service or a children’s musical, invite your friends and family to come! Be the hands and feet of Jesus by doing something special for someone in need. Share the gospel while you are there. Volunteer at a shelter. Bring a meal to a hungry family. Visit the elderly in a nursing home who may not have family around. There are many ways to give back! If you can’t find someone willing to join you for church or you don’t have an opportunity to volunteer, you can still share the gospel with someone. Share your testimony! Tell a friend (or two or twenty) about the many ways Jesus has blessed your life. You may help them discover the true meaning of Christmas, too.
When Sam and I were first married, we lived in an upper apartment on Chicago Street. It was an old house with cheap rent, in a neighborhood that has not fared well over the years. We lived next door to a a single mom with four children. They were on public assistance, and their grandma lived with them off and on. We all became friends and we brought the kids to Sunday School with us every week.
Valerie, one of the girls, was in my class at the time, and I remember her bike got stolen one summer. Every week in Sunday School we prayed that her bike would be returned to her. Every week. Now, don’t get me wrong: I believe God can do anything, but as time went on, it seemed pretty unlikely this prayer would be answered. The family didn’t have money to replace the bike either.
One Sunday, it must have been several months later, we were bringing the kids home from church and we pulled up in front of our house. Next door, Rose (the mom) and Grandma were sitting on their porch steps, and on the sidewalk in front of the house was a brand new bike with a bow on it. There was no question who it was for! Valerie saw the bike, jumped out of our car and ran up the sidewalk. She made a beeline for...her grandma. She flew right past the bike and almost knocked her grandma over with sheer delight. “Thank you, Grandma, thank you, thank you, thank you!”
That was the best illustration I have ever seen, before or since, of thankfulness. What a moment! I’ll never forget it. And it taught me a greater lesson: God is the giver of all good gifts. I need to remember the Giver and not just focus on the gift. I have so many good things in my life, and God has made it possible for me to give freely. Can you imagine the delight the grandma felt on being appreciated and loved so much? I want to be the giver of good gifts, not to receive thanks, but to give joy to another.
I also want to remember to say thank you, like the one leper out of ten who Jesus healed. Ten were healed; one went right back to Jesus to express his gratitude. Maybe the others went back to Jesus later. Maybe their mother had to remind them to go back and say thank you. But nobody had to remind Valerie to thank her grandma for the bike; it was the natural and spontaneous reaction of her heart. I want to be so exercised in gratitude that going to Jesus first in praise and thankfulness is my heart’s default mode. Not just one Thursday in November. Every day.